A compassionate exploration of special interests in autistic childhood, challenging common misconceptions and highlighting their vital role in emotional wellbeing, learning, and identity.
In The William Gomes Podcast episode “Special Interests: Anchors of Joy, Regulation and Identity for Autistic Children,”William Gomes explores how deep and passionate interests are often misunderstood as obsessions. The episode explains that, for many autistic children, special interests function as sources of comfort, emotional regulation, and stability in a world that can feel unpredictable and overwhelming.
Why Special Interests Matter
The discussion considers why special interests develop and how they support a child’s ability to think, focus, and feel safe. Gomes explains that these interests often provide structure and predictability, helping children regulate their nervous systems and engage with the world on their own terms.
Far from being limiting, special interests can enhance curiosity, motivation, creativity, and sustained learning.
The Cost of Restriction
A key focus of the episode is the impact of restricting or discouraging special interests. Gomes explains how limiting access to these interests can increase distress, reduce emotional regulation, and undermine a child’s sense of self.
Instead, the episode highlights how adults can use special interests as bridges for connection, communication, and confidence-building, both at home and within educational settings.
Rethinking How We See Special Interests
Throughout the conversation, Gomes invites listeners to reconsider how special interests are viewed. Rather than behaviours to manage or reduce, they are presented as meaningful expressions of identity that support emotional regulation, resilience, and personal growth.
This reframing encourages more respectful, supportive, and developmentally informed responses.
Part of an Ongoing Autism Series
Part of an ongoing autism series on The William Gomes Podcast, this episode is intended for parents, educators, and professionals seeking a deeper understanding of autistic experience and a more compassionate approach to supporting regulation, learning, and identity.
Listen to the Episode
Apple Podcasts
https://podcasts.apple.com/gb/podcast/the-william-gomes-podcast/id1582677051?i=1000740595862
Spotify
https://open.spotify.com/episode/1x6uDiJTY9HFxX3HthgFEE?si=3b72457a655a4a6d
YouTube
https://youtu.be/pw6Of6hjgb4?si=92cBiqWzqcOS_fHV
The William Gomes Podcast continues to publish high-quality, neurodiversity-affirming discussions that support families and professionals in understanding autistic development, regulation, and identity with empathy and clarity.
